A.E. asks from Lewisville, TX on November 11, 2008
Advice on Weaning Newborn off Nipple Guard
4 days ago I gave birth to my third child. He is beautiful, and I'm hopelessly in love with him. When we were in the hospital I had a very difficult time getting him to latch on while breastfeeding. I've breastfed both of my other sons, so I was pretty familiar with the tricks and techniques. I ended up asking the lactation consultant what I should do. She determined that he was a lazy sucker. She recommended that I use a nipple guard. He has done much better with the feeding, and I'm very happy that we've made progress so quickly. However, I do not want him to become dependent on the nipple. One of the benefits of breastfeeding is that you can do it without having to bring extra stuff along. I would love any advice that any of you can give me about how to wean him from using this guard.
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A.M. answers from Dallas on November 12, 2008
Congratulations on your newest little one! I don't have specific advice, but I know of some resources where you may be able to find the answer you are looking for. www.kellymom.com is a great resource for bf moms. You might also find answers on the La Leche legue website.
Also, if you aren't too far from S. Arlington, I know of a free professionally let breastfeeding resource group that meets every Tues. night at 7pm. Send me a message if you'd like more info. on this.
Good Luck!
M.S. answers from Dallas on November 12, 2008
I had two preemies and because of my flat nipples they wouldn't latch on to one side. We didn't have the nipple guards when my first was born so I just had to pump for MONTHS. When my second was born we used the nipple guard and it was great. When she got a little bigger I would use it to latch her on and then when she got the milk flowing we would take it off and she would latch on to me. It was awesome. She is now 21 months old and still nursing! The la leche league website and forums are wonderful! I was too stubborn with my oldest to contact them but with my youngest it really helped. Congrats and good luck!
H.H. answers from Amarillo on November 12, 2008
Yes you definitely do not want him to become dependent on the nipple guard. I allowed my girl to keep using it thinking it was working so why change and at 4 weeks of age the nipple guard itself was causing me bodily damage but she would not nurse otherwise. What I did to get her off of the guard was at the beginning of each feeding try to nurse without the guard. As she was always hungry at the beginning of the feeding she would try. AT first she could not get a latch. THen later she would latch on for awhile but could not maintain a seal for a complete feeding. Finally I noticed we did not need the guard anymore. This process was over 3 days or so. Whenever she would start to get frustrated or quit trying to feed I would stop trying and use the guard again to allow her to get a complete feeding in. This worked for me. I had talked to a lactation consultant about it and she recommended expressing a little milk before attempting feeding to make the baby interested. Anyway, good luck!
B.L. answers from Dallas on November 12, 2008
My baby spent his first 3 weeks in the NICU with a feeding tube or a bottle. We of course needed to use the nipple shield when we finally began nursing. We used it for about a month after that and then I began weaning him off of the shield. I did not try to do this for the night feedings at first. I picked one of his day time feedings. I would start with the shield to keep him from getting frustrated. After he had nursed for a few minutes I would quickly slide the shield out of the way. Sometimes he would not skip a beat and others he would have to work at it for awhile. After a few days of that I would try it with all of his feedings. When he had mastered all of his day time feedings without the shield then we took it away at night. It takes time and practice for them to develop the muscles draw you into their mouth. Once they can do that the actual sucking is no problem. It sometimes helps to pinch the area around your nipple to help them fit it into their mouth when they are practicing drawing you in. The more of the nipple they get into their mouth the better. Hang in there it took us about 3 weeks to totally be shield free.
K.T. answers from Dallas on November 12, 2008
Congrats on your new baby. We had to use the nipple shield when my duaghter was born because she was very tiny and we had a latch problem. We used it for about 4 weeks. After about 3 weeks I was annoyed (for those same reasons you mentioned.) To ween her...I did the same thing someone else recommended. I used it to get her to latch and once the milk started flowing -- I would take her off the breast and remove the shield and put her back on. Then after a few days of that I just started trying to get her to latch by herself. Sometimes it worked -- sometimes it didn't and she would get frustrated. I also found that nighttime was harder. But after about a week of the above process -- she just quit using it -- and we have been nursing fine without it ever since (she is now 13 months). She is my first child -- so I think it just took a few weeks for us both to figure things out. Maybe after a coupld of weeks -- he'll figure things out too. ;-)
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