The only advice I can give you is to relax and be calm about teh situation, My 3 boys have all wet the bed, the oldest stopped at 12, he is now 16, the middle one, still has an occasional bout, but waking him at 11 and having him go to the bathroom every night helps to lighten their deep sleep and allow them to learn to wake upo when they need to go. My youngest is 8 and was a everynight bed flood-er until he made the decision that he wanted things to change. I have noticed that if there is a nightmare or unsettling day that he is more likely to have an accident, But explaining that it is not something they have 100% control over has helped my sons to cope. They know it will stop when it is time and we can do small things to help like limiting fluid intake at night, no dairy products after 5:30 pm, and trying to be in a clam emotional state,. Sometimes they say I will be dry 10 times before they go to bed, but that is their choice and not mine. Goodluck and breathe! J.