Adoption Information

Hi B., I friend of mine adopted 2 kids through "foster to adopt" program in Harrnett County, as far as I know prosses was fast, and they did not pay anything.They are very happy now. I can give you her contact info if you'd like to know the details.

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Cradle of Hope is an organization that works out Russian adoptions. A friend of mine adopted a one-year-old recently through them. I think this is also the organization that arranged for older kids (not babies) to come over to spend summers with families. I think some of these kids are available for adoption. This may be a way to get involved with the organization, and you may find a child who is a little more appropriately aged to really offer your son a closer to peer-aged sibling instead of a young baby. If this is something you are really interested in, email me back, and I'll try to get more information.

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Adoption is wonderful! As a Christian, I've been adopted into God's family, and I couldn't be happier! I also have some really good friends who either were adopted or have adopted children. Every child needs a good home, so if you can give it, DO! God bless! There's some really good (Christian-based) info about adoption at www.family.org.

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We have just finalized a domestic infant adoption and would be happy to share any helpful information we can.

I also recommend joining yahoo groups for those adopting or who have adopted--it's very helpful.

Search for 'Adoption: A Gift Of Love' under yahoo groups, for example.

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I worked for DHS in legal department for 3 years in Arkansas and I think it is a wonderful idea to adopt foster children. They have a wonderful program that helps you and child bond before the final decree is signed. There are alot of children who have been abandoned and just need someone to love them. If you have any specific questions. I will be glad to offer advice.

I think that's so wonderful. I am puzzled, however, with so many babies and orphans here in the U.S. why so many go to foreign countries. Sometimes, we just don't seem to take care of our own. Good luck and God bless your family!

B., Since we have moved to Franklin 1 year ago today, I have met about 30 families who have adopted. When we lived in California, my husband and I started an adoption ministry at our church. Now I'm involved in one here at our new church (Christ Presbyterian Church here in Nashville). There are so many faucets of adoption. We adopted both of our precious children as infants in California from a private agency called Bethany Christian Services (there is an office here in Nashville too).
We chose a private agency to handle our adoption because they really do their homework and provide wonderful counseling. In California, to adopt through a private attorney was very expensive and risky. In Calif., a birthmother got vety little counseling and had 6 months to change her mind (after baby went home with the adoptive coulpe) and we could have lost the baby and our money. Bethany Christian Services (BCS) did a lot of counseling with the birthmothers and never told us that we were "chosen" out of profiles by the birhmothers until BCS were very sure that the mothers definitely wanted their babies to be adopted. BCS really protected both parties. If you adopted through a private agency, then the birthmother had to give up her rights to her baby at the time of discharge from the hospital.
There is also international adoption (BCS or Night Life). I have 4 friends that adopted darling girls from China, 2 friends that adopted from Africa and a friend who adopted from Korea. Be careful of adopting through foster care situations. I've had 2 friends that were not allowed to keep/adopt the babies they fell in love with. It can be heart breaking.
Our children are now 12 and 13. We couldn't love them anymore than we do. Also Steven Curtis Chapman has a ministry and a website about adoption named after his daughter called Shaohannahshope.
We struggled with infertility for 10 years. God had a different plan for us to have children. Now that I look back, I thank my Lord for not answering my prayers the way I wanted them to be answered or I wouldn't have known my precious children I have now. Jeremiah 29:11,"For I know the plans I have for you," says the Lord,"plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.".God bless you on your new adventure. S.

We adopted thru Gladney, in fact we are in the process of adopting another baby thru them now. They're wonderful!! Check out their website. www.gladney.org

Good luck! J. D

Hello B.,
My name is C. and my husband and i adopted a little girl 8 years ago from the foster care system. It was a very long process and very hard. Although we would not change the outcome for anything in the world, i do have to tell you that it was full of heartaches and troubles! I am leaving for a mission trip tomorrow and will be gone for a week. I would love to hear more on your plans and fill you in more on what we experienced when I get back. Here is my e-mail ____@____.com stay intouch. C.

Hi B.,
My husband and I adopted a beautiful little boy 10/02/06, he was a domestic adoption here in the states. We actually got to be there for the birth, I was in the delivery room with his birth mother, it was one of the most special moments of my life. I have a bio baby as too, well he is not a baby he is 19 years old. Our wait was very short, from the start of our home study to the day he was born was 6 months. We had a great experience and would do it over and over again but will probably just do it one more time. Do it, you will never regret it!! If you want more info let me know and I can give you some contact #'s. Good luck!!

Each state is a little different, but I'm from Indiana and I adopted both of my sons through Foster Care. I got one when he was 4 months old (he will be 5 in August) and my other son when he was 7 months old (he was 5 in May). In Indiana the goal is always reunification with the parents so you have to be prepared that a child in your home doesn't always stay with you, but you have to realize that for the time they are with your family, you have made a difference in their life. It isn't always easy to deal with the birth parents, the laws etc, but I would not change anything. God truly blessed my life. There are a tremendous amount of children who are needing a good home with loving parents so I would say by all means contact your local Children Protection Department. Unfortunately, there are usually more children needing homes, than homes that are available.

PS It did take a couple of years to finalize the adoption, but I figure it was well worth the wait. I don't know what life will bring when they reach their teens, but then that is the way it is with all kids. I do know both set of birth parents and actually let the grandparents visit. I kept pictures of all the parents so I could have them for the boys when they got older. We had a huge adoption party and I explain that they were God's present to me, because their mommy and daddy wasn't able to care for them so they ask God to give them a mommy who could. I wish you good luck in your decision.

Dont adopt just to give your son a little brother..that is no reason to adopt.If you and your husband are serious about adopting then get any and all information about it..read that information over and over.Ask any/all question you have.Think about why YOU want to adopt.Age of child(I would go close to your son)you want to adopt.Gender of child..the list goes on and on.Adopting is a big decision between you,your husband and your son as it will change all of your lives.Finacially are you able to take on another child?What will your families think?There are hundred of things you have to think about when adopting..questions you have to ask.Talk to others who have adopted through the system.Sit down and right out why you want to adopt..pro/cons.How will you respond to question the child as about why he/she was adopted when older or why didnt his/her parents want then?The list goes on and on.If you want to talk more about this email me private.Im not trying to discourage you in this but you should really think about why YOU want to adopt other then to give your son another sibling because 'he needs a sibling because he is very lonely.If he wants a playmate..find him friends of his own age..good luck..
S. B