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9 Month Old Stopped Sleeping Through the Night - Help!

My 9 month old daughter has slept through the night since about 10 weeks. In the last month she started waking up in the middle of the night and for the last 2 weeks its been every night anywhere from midnight to 3am. We've tried to let her cry but after a half hour her screams are unbearable and we go in to get her since we cannot sleep. We have also found that the sooner we go into sooth her she will go back to sleep immediately. If we try to let her cry she gets worked up and then it's a 2+ plus process to get her back to sleep. I know all the sleep books say to let them cry it out but we are not advocates of this method (plus my husband gets up early and has a very stressful jobs so he needs to get his sleep). She has not broken any teeth yet so we are wondering if she could be teething since she wakes up crying. When she wakes up in the morning she is fine and plays happily in her crib til we go in to get her. Has anyone experienced a similar situation? Is this just a phase, possibly due to teething or are we heading for sleep issues? Help!

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It could be teething, but it appears that it's been happening for quite some time. I usually experience that right when the tooth was to break through is when they would wake up with the most pain and it only lasted at most several days. I would go in right away if that is what seems to get her to bed the fasted. However, I would definitely not pick her up and so everything but. Good Luck. This too shall pass. I know it seems like it will never end, but you will sleep again.

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It could be teething, but it appears that it's been happening for quite some time. I usually experience that right when the tooth was to break through is when they would wake up with the most pain and it only lasted at most several days. I would go in right away if that is what seems to get her to bed the fasted. However, I would definitely not pick her up and so everything but. Good Luck. This too shall pass. I know it seems like it will never end, but you will sleep again.

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Hi H.,
It is so funny that you say your nine month old stopped sleeping through the night. So did mine! I have a nine month old little girl and she has always been so good about sleeping through the night, except when she is teething. I used the baby motrin, it worked very well for her. Right now the reason she is waking up is not teething, I think it is a growth spurt and they are hungry. I have recently swithched to a bigger nipple at bedtime so she does not fall asleep before finishing her bottle and that seems to work, just make sure she burps before you put her in her crib.
Good luck!

Hi H.,

I read all of your responses. I don't think you need to worry too much about this being a sleep issue either. It really sounds like he is just teething. I would give a dose of a pain reliever as a preventative thing before bed one night and see what happens. If he doesn't wake up, then you can assume it's his teeth. I found that the baby motrin worked much better for teething than the infant tylenol. Personally, I wouldn't use the orajel, especially at night, but that's just me. I also wake very early and need my sleep, so sometimes I'd slip him a bottle and that's all it took. If you find that you're doing it everynight, maybe give him a bigger bottle before bed instead of in the middle of the night to rule out hunger. :) Good luck, and don't worry, this will pass!

Hi H.,
Both of my kids have gone through many sleep changes and I wouldn't worry about being headed for sleep issues. We aren't for the cry it out method either and we just hung in there and our 5 yr old is a really good sleeper. My 4 month old son started waking up more in the past 2 weeks and he just busted out 2 teeth! I was a little surprised because it is a little early, but yes - sleep can be disrupted by teeth and they can go back to sleeping through the night just as quickly as they stopped. Hang in there - S. S.

We found around this age that our kids (especially our son) had many nights of waking up...teething, growth spurt, attachment, night terrors... could be many of these things and unfortunately just something you have to pray it stops soon and do your best. Maybe try giving a little tylenol at night to see if that helps.

Motrin is good...make sure they are not hungry too! I don't reccomend orajel because it is not safe for little ones if they swallow it. I am not a big fan of the stuff because it gives a false sense of soothing.

I am blown away at how many people suggest giving drugs to a 9 month old?! How about some TLC and snuggling with Mom? Do NOT listen to those that suggest cry it out, your child will cry when they need something and ignoring that is not following your mother's intuition. We were given a sense to know what our children need for a reason, so listen to it!
I have a 9 month old that was sleeping through the night at 11 weeks up until a month ago. She has gotten 5 teeth in that time and is usually up 1-3 times a night now. I know that once she is through this stage, she will not need to be comforted and will not need me. It is so silly to think that we expect a 9 month old to be able to understand why they are in pain and not want their mom!
Try Hyland's Teething Tablets, they are all natural and can be found in your local healthfood store. They have calming agents and also help soften the skin to make it easier for the tooth to break through. PLEASE don't start your 9 month old on a path to popping pills!

Not all the books advocate sleeping it out.

She could be teething. She could be having a growth spurt. She could be having night terrors.

I believe in giving your baby what she needs. You say that she goes back to sleep immediately if you soothe her-- then sooth her! She needs you.

If getting up in the middle of the night is causing you guys sleep problems-- other options are to have baby sleep in your room or your bed where you would be able to respond faster- before baby works up into a cry and then hubby won't wake.

Your baby sleeps the way she needs to. You are not heading for "sleep issues". Remember that 80% of people with babies in your child's age range think that their baby has "sleep issues". Maybe it's not an issue then if it's the majority. This is normal.

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