I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Sadly, I know the feeling all too well. I have infertility issues, so I had IVF and had my son almost 3 years ago. As a result of the IVF I had 4 frozen embryos, which I used this year. The first time, they used 2 of them and I was pregnant. at about 6 or 7 weeks, there was no heart beat. I was faced with the D&C decision as well, and really struggeled with it. I wanted to do natural, but I was worried if it happened when I was at work. I finally decided to do the D&C, and on that morning while in the waiting room is when I started to miscarry. I've heard other people saying it would be like a regular period. Let me tell you, that mine was more of a never ending blood puring out. I was thankful that I wasn't at work, or somewhere else. There was no stopping in the blood that was coming out. I probably went through 10 pads in the 30 to 45 minutes, with most of the time sitting on the toilet. I had the D&C to make sure all was OK. I have heard that you may need the D&C even if you go through it naturally. Thinking back now, I am glad I did it. It helps you reach your pre pregnancy hormone level faster. So what ever you decide, you will need to reach your pre pregnancy hormone levels before trying again. I would strongly suggetst about 4 months. I tried again with the remaining 2 embryos I had left, and got pregnant a few months later. sadly that pregnancy ended as well but much earlier on (first couple of days) so no D&C was required. I am getting ready mentally to go through another full IVF cycle. I wanted to wait till the new year, as I feel this was a bad year twice, and I need to start fresh. I know how you feel, trust me everything happens for a reason. Don't be discouraged but do take a few months to try again. Take some time to do something special for yourself, and pamper yourself in the mean time. Good luck to you.