H.L. asks from Burnsville, MN on April 20, 2009
8 Month Old Not Eating Veggies or Sleeping Well
I have an 8 month old baby girl who has started to give us problems with her eating and sleeping. We have recently introduced her to yoghurt and since then she refuses to eat veggies or meat. She will eat fruits and the puddings. How do I get her back onto veggies?
She has also been sleeping really badly lately, waking up anywhere from 4 - 7 times a night. I am not sure if this is due to teething (she currently has her 4th tooth coming down), I can get up and put stuff on her gums and she sometimes goes back to sleep, but sometimes she will just cry. Any suggestions how I can get her to eat veggies again and how I can get her to sleep through the night again. I am starting to get a bit desperate for sleep. : ) I would really appreciate any help you can give me : ) thanks
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E.I. answers from Duluth on April 21, 2009
you can mix the veggies into anything. or give her boiled soft veggies in one of those little netting feeder things for babies... they are awesome!
as far as sleeping, this is normal for an infant. do your best to be accomodating and sensitive to his needs, trust me, in about a year, you will be glad for the close connection - its easier to know what your toddler needs and why shes having a tantrum when you know your child so closly! :D the way to get close is to stay close now and do your best to follow your heart and your instincts with your child. i found that sleeping with my son until he was around 15-17 months old, for at least part of the night, was helpful and important if i wanted to sleep. NO, your child will not want to sleep with you forever. only you will know your child. there are no rules for parenting.. they are all different because each child is different!
anyway, again, this is normal and common, and try not to make your sweetie cry it out - theres various reasons that this does NOT work, even if it seems to work on the outside. what you teach her is that you dont respond to her when she needs it. :D again, this grows that connection that you will want to have in a year or so... knowing why your toddler is having the tantrum... WOW. its incredible. :D
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T.W. answers from Sheboygan on April 21, 2009
Waking up that many times a night makes me think she is hungry. Are you giving her cereal before bed..if not you might want to think about doing it. Good luck!!
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K.K. answers from Milwaukee on April 21, 2009
I second the suggestion of removing the yogurt from her diet. All three of my kiddos had/have dairy sensitivities. Dairy is actually one of the hardest things for humans to digest...because it's made for baby cows, not humans. My kids couldn't have diary until they hit 20 months or so, and our middle boy seems to still have minor issues with it (he gets horrible gas). Good Luck!
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L.R. answers from Dubuque on April 20, 2009
Hi there,
we have a nine month old little boy who is extremely good at eating everything and anything! Basically if we are eating it he wants to have a go. He even wanted some brussel sprout yesterday which I thought he would pull a big face at but no that didn't phase him at all and he had a little taste. I would recommend giving her tasty bits of what you are having (within reason of course somethings won't be appropriate for her age) just to get her open to eating different things. I also agree that cutting back on the yoghurt would be a good idea. Our boy did go through a phase of only wanting sweet things but we just kept on being persistant about the savoury foods - I think the main turning point was starting out with mashed veggies that were naturally sweet being the predominate ingredient e.g carrots, sweet potato then we slowly shifted the balance towards all veggies and meat. Goodluck - I think you'll find that if she is getting lots of food down her the sleeping will come back in line also
Cheers L.
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K.L. answers from Madison on April 21, 2009
Why not try the sweeter veggies for a time? Kids are drawn to sweet at this age - just think how sweet breast milk is :)
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