C.L. asks from Salt Lake City, UT on April 22, 2009
8 Month Old Not Babbling
Hi moms! Once again (and I think everyone on here feels the same), I just have to say how much I love this board and all of the advice that is offered on it. I have another question regarding my son who just barely turned 8 months old. I know he's still young and it's hard to tell anything - and also, I vowed I wouldn't be one of those moms who worries about hitting every milestone exactly on target- but I'm starting to worry a little bit. When my son was younger (around 2-3 months) he used to kind of babble/coo. Not a lot, but he did it. Now that he's 8 months old, though, he only makes one noise really, which is a "Mmmm-mmmm-mmmm" sound, but no real babbling of consonants. He's great at communicating non-verbally, when you hold him, he motions with his body if he wants to go see something, and starts kicking his arms and legs if he gets excited about what you're looking at. His hearing seems fine, he turns to look at even the slightest noises. He interacts with people (would much rather play with people than with just his toys), and looks you right in the eye. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else on here has had a "late" babbler or if there is anything else I should be watching out for? Thanks so much ladies.
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K.D. answers from Provo on April 23, 2009
My daughter stopped babbling for a while around that age. Same as your son, she would just do mmmm-mmmmm-mmmm all the time. Turns out all she was teething. Once her teeth popped through she went back to babbling and on to yelling.
I hope that's all it is with your son.
A.B. answers from Pocatello on April 23, 2009
My daughter didn't babble much either. She was actually very quiet and would often just kind of sneak up on us. She was mobile much earlier and just seemed to enjoy taking in the things going on around her. Some babies just prefer to study out the things around them first. When my daughter turned 20 months old just all the sudden starting talking like crazy about 2 weeks later she was stringing together 3 and 3 word sentences. Now at 26 months she talks all the time. The good thing is that your son is communicating with the people around him with his eye contact and his body. If your son still isn't speaking much by the age of 2 you might encourage him to use his words by pretending you don't understand his body language. Until then I wouldn't worry, especially if you have notices advances in other aspects of his development.
C.M. answers from Denver on April 23, 2009
This sounds just like my son who will be 3 in June. He wouldn't really make the sounds that the books said he should be making and really preferred people to toys. I was anxious about it but my husband kept telling me not to worry, he was communicating and interacting. Then at nine months he said his first word (the dog's name) and by a year he had a handful of words and now he is much further advanced in speech then other kids his age and talks nonstop. Supposedly Einstein didn't talk until he was three. I would say not to worry but keep a watch and best of luck.
S.B. answers from Boise on April 23, 2009
Have the doctor check for fluid on the ears.
At ten months I finely got others to see that he was not making as many noises, sounds as he should, they did a hearing test which he passed, they said to come back in six months if he had not progressed. At 12 months he had his first ear infection. The doctor noted for the first time fluid on the ears, even when the infection was gone. He had three more infections before he was 16 months, at 16 months he got tubes put in both ears. With in two weeks he had three words, and many more sounds. I believe he had fluid on the ears since he was little and so things sounded like they were under water for him till the tubes.
good luck
S. Broadbent
www.homewithkai.com
K.D. answers from Denver on April 22, 2009
The Children's Hospital here in Denver says to get them evaluated at 9 months if they're not babbling. Not sure what you have in your area, but they probably would say about the same. My daughter was not babbling at 8 mos. and I was very worried. (I'd love to have just one kid who doesn't need speech therapy!) At 9 months she started babbling right on cue. Now, at less than 10 months, she says "Dada", "Mmmmmma-mmmmmma" (not sure if that's acceptable or not), "Bu-Bu" for both "Buddy" and Bye-bye. She is also using several sign language signs which, although it helps develop language, can delay speech, although not always. I know our Children's Hospital was very helpful when I started calling for my daughter's problems. I really had a bunch of non-specific questions. They asked a lot of questions and got us set up for an evaluation. She's now in feeding therapy 2x a month, which should help with speech also. It doesn't hurt to call. You might just find out he's well within the norms. They'll know what to ask to assess that. GL!
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