R.H. asks from Rathdrum, ID on March 15, 2007
7.5 Month Old Showing Less Interest in Breastfeeding.....
My son is 7.5 months old now. I feed him solids 2x daily. He is also breastfed. I've read that at his age breast milk or formula only supplies about half the nutrition he now needs. It seems to me that within the past few weeks, he has lost interest in breastfeeding. He still nurses around 5-6 times a day, most of which are at night. That seems to be when he nurses best...less distractions too, I suppose. I usually feed him a Gerber fruit around 8am and he gets a vegetable around 6pm. The problem is that sometimes it feels as though I'm forcing him to nurse during the day. Sometimes he'll go 5 hours or more without nursing. Most of the time when I try and nurse him during the day, he'll just take a few sucks and stop. I just want to make sure he's getting enough breast milk. I always make sure to nurse him an hour before feeding him any solids to assure he's not eating too much solid food. I love breastfeeding but hate not knowing exactly how much he consumes each time. If I knew, I would at least have some idea how much breast milk he gets in a day.
He still has plenty of wet diapers, so I know he's not dehydrated.
Has anybody experienced this with their baby? Could it be possible that he is weaning himself? I would love some advice!!
So What Happened?™
Thanks for the advice. He still is SO easily distracted by EVERYTHING, but he is nursing more normally now. Sometimes I just have to sit down in a quiet room with him so he can nurse without all the distractions. Like I said, I don't mind him nursing at night because that's when he nurses best. Dark, quiet, and no distractions!
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R.S. answers from Bellingham on March 16, 2007
I breastfed all 4 of my children till at least 12 months. If you are keen of the idea of him weaning from the breast, then that's fine, but he will still need the formula till he is 12 months. If he won't take the formula either, then I would not recommend letting him wean from the breast yet since "breast is best". I would suggest cutting back to just one solid a day. With 2 of my children, I didn't offer solids until they were already 9 months to discourage food allergies. I wonder if it's possible it's something that you eat or take on a regular basis that makes him dislike the taste of the milk? As long as he is gaining weight and eliminating normally, then, it sounds like he's healthy little guy.
R.
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J.C. answers from Portland on March 16, 2007
If he's nursing lots at night you might want to discourage those and encourage him to eat more during the day. I'd also probably reduce the fruit and add some cereal. On the other hand if it seems like he's growing and nursing some, he's probably just fine and you shouldn't worry too much.
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S.D. answers from Yakima on March 20, 2007
It sounds to me like your son is getting plenty of food to eat, whether it's baby food of you nursing. my son is 11 months and he only nurses 3x a day and eats food 2x a day. in reality a food meal is taking the place of a nursing time. my son when he nurses he is fast getting done is less than 3 minutes(probably 2-3 oz worth) he burps and then goes to the other side. then about a hour later he wants food so i give him a jar or a bunch of crackers. i wouldn't worry about it. all babies usually are distracted, but if he truly is hungry he will nurse. hope this helps. S. D.
A.F. answers from Spokane on March 19, 2007
Hello,
My name is A. I am 34 years old. I have a 4.5 year old little girl who has leukemia she finished her chemo last feb. I also have a 17 mo. old little boy. I breast fed both of my kids. I stopped breast feeding my son when he was around 7.5 months old. He didn't seem like he liked it either and he would bite my nipple. I got tired of that really fast. I have heard that sometimes your breast milk changes taste with what you eat and also your body makes the flavor change trying to help ween the baby. Don't feel guilty if you don't breast feed for an entire year. If your son is growing like he should you should try giving him formula. You can get formula at Walmart for 11.00 a can and it is the same as enfamil. Costco also has generic formula for about the same price. You should see what your doctor has to say. Don't forget they will eat when they are hungry. I tried giving my son a bottle when he was about six months old and he absolutely did not want any part of it. When i tried a month and a half later he took it immediatly and never went back to the breast, he forgot all about them
J.S. answers from Anchorage on March 18, 2007
both my kids lost interest in nursing at around 8 months. I think they were just too busy and distracted. I wasn't ready to wean them so I just continued to nurse through it and after a few weeks they both eventually started to enjoy it again.
good luck
A.H. answers from Portland on March 18, 2007
I had this same issue at this age. My son got more interested in everything else rather than stopping to nurse. I was really worried that he was just going to stop, because I did not want to pump or give formula. In the end it was just a faze that lasted for 1-2 months. He eventually went back to nursing the regular amount and I nursed him for another 2 years. 7 months is the age when everything gets really interesting to an infant. I'm sure it will pass, keep nursing it's so important. :)
A.P. answers from Spokane on March 17, 2007
My oldest daughter did something very similar, she didn't want her bottle very much during the day , but she would drink 8oz before bed, once during the night, and first thing in the morning. My pediatrician told me that some kids are just ready for more solids earlier than others, and to start giving her a more balanced solid-fod diet. We added whole milk yogurt and cottage cheese (and other soft cheeses when she could chew a little better), gerber entrees with meat, etc. By about 9 months, she wanted nothing to do with the jars of food, and only wanted table foods. Always check with your doctor, but he might just be ready to branch out.
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R.L. answers from Eugene on March 18, 2007
We also have a 7 1/2 month old boy right now and he is also breastfed and getting 2 solids "meals" a day, although we add the baby oatmeal cereal to his fruits & veggies for a little iron kick. I work full-time, so I pump 2-3 times at work and then he nurses 2-4 more times when I'm home (usually one early AM and then the rest after 4PM). He's also (praise the Gods) sleeping 8-10 hours straight now at nite. SO, we have to kinda cram in the recommended 6 or 7 nursing sessions (or 4 oz. bottles when I'm at work) plus the 2 meals. Sometimes he only nurses 5 times, sometimes 8... I look at us as a team and he's good at knowing what he needs and my body is good at responding accordingly.
One idea if you're trying to sneek in more milk... feed him his solids at lunch and dinner times instead of breakfast and dinner... then he MIGHT be more interested in nursing more in the morning.
The Nursing Mother's Companion book is excellent, they also say that babies at this age do not spontaneously wean themselves... sometimes teething issues can also play a part in what the book calls a nursing strike. Just offer the breast every 2 or 3 hours (when he's awake) and your son will do what he needs to do.
Good luck and way to go! :)
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