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7 Year Old with Tummy Troubles

OK Mamas I need some help. I have a 7 year old girl with some minor tummy troubles. She said that her tummy "just dosen't feel good" and she has to go poop a lot. And when she goes, she's going she'll spend 20 minutes in the bathroom and you'd think her daddy had been in there. She said that she's going like that 2 or 3 times a day. My first thought is that she's eating to much (she acts likes she's starving and eats more than me right now) and she's giving herself a tummy ache. I've been trying to monitor what she's eating to see if that helps and told her that if she wasn't better by early next week we'd call the doctor. My husband says that as long as she wasn't constipated I shouldn't worry so what if she's going 2 or 3 times per day and is in the bathroom for 20 minutes at a time. But I'm thinking this isn't normal for her and so I should be worried. What do you guys think (I really thought I was done talking about poop once my kids where "big").

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It could be nothing or could be something.I'm not going to give any medical advice because we simply have no idea what is causing this.If you feel as her mama to take her in for piece of mind then do so. In the mean time monitor her and if she'll let you look ate her poops if there is any blood in the stool take her in right away

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hi! i have a 7 yr. old as well and she has these problems from time to time as well...the same problems you talk about and some others and i have noticed that when she eats yogart at least 3 times a week and drinks apple juice mixed with cranberry the same amout if time she does not have any problems any more....there is some kind of germ in the yogart that helps to settle her tummy and the apple juice helps to keepsher from getting constipated....also i ad fiber to every meal i make with the non flavored powder....i started doing all of these things about 3 months ago and she has not made one complaint since....

i hope this may be helpful....
L. (my friends call me lala)

I would do a food diary for a week or 2 and see if she is eating a balanced diet or you can see a pattern for a food allergy. My mom had similiar issues and got tested and has celiac disease (cannot tolerate glutten in wheat, etc.) Take the food diary to the peditrician and they can usually see what's going on. Good luck!

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It could be nothing or could be something.I'm not going to give any medical advice because we simply have no idea what is causing this.If you feel as her mama to take her in for piece of mind then do so. In the mean time monitor her and if she'll let you look ate her poops if there is any blood in the stool take her in right away

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This is how my son reacts when he gets something that he is allergic to = gluten (wheat, oats, rye, barley), casein, and about 20 other things. He also is not absorbing nutrients, etc because when he eats an allergen it has inflamed the inside of his stomach, then all food passes on through and so he feels hungry all the time even when he has just eaten. I would have her checked for allergies. They don't always show up by skin rashes, etc. The diarrhea, to me, is a major indicator. At least, that's my 2 cents and experience with the last of my 6 kids!

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I am not sure if its normal or not but if it were me, I would call the dr and ask questions, cant hurt to call right. Its a piece of mind thing. As a mom its our jobs to worry. I used to get minor tummy aches when I ate certain food, I was probably about the same age, and cant remember what it was but they put me on medicine and it went away. I used to get them when I ate hotdogs and beans. Probably the beans that did it, so I never eat the stuff anymore.

Good Luck, hope she feels better soon.

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S., it may be nothing to worry about, and it may be problems with food alergies, or it may be something like irritable bowel syndrome. I dont think anyone can tell you what is going on, we dont know what she eats or how she feels. I would say follow your instincts. You know what is normal for her and what isnt, apparently you feel this is not normal.

There are a lot of things it could be, but there are a lot of things it may not be as well. I used to love milk, never had a problem with it. All of a sudden within a matter of days I could no longer drink milk, or eat ice cream with out having the same kind of problem. She may have developed a sensitivity to something in her diet. For me it takes only about 15 to 20 minutes before I know that I have ingested milk. Follow what she is eating and see if there is any correlation to how her tummy feels.

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I dont think you should be relying on us for advice...if your Mothers' heart is telling you that something isn't right...I think it means you need to at least call the doctor and discuss it with him. It could be absolutely nothing...but it could be the beginning signs of something that could be easily handled and then she wouldnt have to deal with it anymore.
Give the Doctor a call and put your mind at ease.

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I agree with the others that you should tell her doctor about it, and if they dismiss it as nerves or something, keep pressing them. Especially since she is eating a lot, like others said, check for some kind of parasite.

My only other advice is about the probiotics that others have mentioned. They can be expensive or in capsules which your daughter may not like. A much easier and cheaper way to get them is to drink Kefir. It's at most grocery stores (by the milk or in the organic milk section) and it tastes just like a yogurt smoothie. It comes in all kinds of flavors and both regular and organic varieties. It's about $3 or $4 a bottle. My husband and I drink a small glass of it with breakfast.

Even if it is not the cause of her problems, it can never hurt to get more of the good bacteria in her stomach (and yours, too) through probiotics. Things like antibiotics and certain foods can eliminate some of the good bacteria in the stomach and probiotics help to replenish it. The more good bacteria, the better food will be digested and is available as nutrients rather than just passing through.

Best wishes!

I agree with the emotional part. My daughter goes thru this the closer she gets to something big happening. She stresses about how things will come out even though we tell her to do her best and it will all be fine.

We just went through this with our 8 year old. She's been acting just the same. In fact, I could have written this exactly. In our situation it turned out to be all emotional. Our daughter was frustrated over several things we have been able to get ironed out and she's perfectly fine now.

Has she had any major changes lately? Is she in a new school or did anyone move out of the house? I think we forget that our children are growing up in a very stressful world.

S.

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