M.B. asks from Augusta, GA on May 13, 2008
6 Month Old Only Sleeps 45 Minutes at a Time
I have a 6 month old baby girl. She was on a four hour schedule a month ago. When she woke up I'd feed her, she'd stay up for about 2 hours, and then she'd sleep for about two hours. I haven't changed anything but she now only sleeps 45 minutes. She wakes up cranky and I can't do anything with her. She's not hungry because when I try to feed her she barely eats anything. I've tried leaving her in her crib in hopes that she will fall back to sleep but instead she babbles and rolls around. She only has one bunny blanket that she sleeps with in the crib. There's nothing to play with that will keep her awake. I still try to feed her about every 4 hours but sometimes she's so sleepy she doesn't eat much. I feel like I'm in a vicious cycle and I don't know how to get out. She has been sleeping through the night since 9 weeks but the last two nights she's woken up at 4 in the morning. I also work full-time from home and I'm getting nothing done because she won't sleep.
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I do think she is going through a phase. She's been drooling a lot and putting everything in her mouth so I think she's teething. She's also trying to crawl. Whenever I go in to get her from her nap, she's on her hands and knees and rocking. For the last two or three days she's been taking a nap from 2-4pm. Her morning naps only last 45 minutes still. So I hope that she will eventually go back to sleeping on a schedule in the morning. I've also started trying to get her to eat when we do. Before I was feeding her everytime she woke up. Now if it's been three to four hours but it's 10 am, I give her a bottle. That will tide her over til lunch. I do the same in the afternoon. So now she eats a meal when we do.
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E.F. answers from Atlanta on May 14, 2008
Hi M.! She'll get back to a schedule, but she may not need as much sleep in the mornings any more. Put her in a swing or playpen in the room where you are working at home. She can see and hear you and not be afraid that she is alone. Sometimes she'll fall asleep in a swing for a short nap before the next feeding too. I as a SAHM when my son was little, and the playpen was wonderful when it was time to fold clothes or fix dinner. He loved to the play with toys in it even if the side was let down and he could crawl in and out (at about 2 years of age).
Good Luck - E.
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A.H. answers from Savannah on May 14, 2008
My daughter did the same thing, but only would sleep 30 minutes at a time. It drove me insane so I can really relate to what you are going through. I found that there was nothing that I could do to help the situation. Her naps gradually lengthened over time. She is almost a year old now and sleeps an hour in the morning and 90 minutes in the afternoon. She has been sleeping like this for the past couple of months. Don't lose heart, hopefully her naps will change over time.
A.
B. answers from Augusta on May 13, 2008
"I've tried leaving her in her crib in hopes that she will fall back to sleep but instead she babbles and rolls around."If she's not crying I'd leave her alone. It could be that she's getting ready to hit a milestone, like crawling if she isnt already.
You also said she wakes up cranky , she could be teething if she's waking up that soon.
S.W. answers from Atlanta on May 13, 2008
if she's just babbling and rolling around in her crib, can you just let her be and see if she goes back to sleep?
B.F. answers from Atlanta on May 13, 2008
I would get her something in her crib so when she wakes she can play with mom and stimulate her brain some and help make her tired my kids loved the Ocean wonders by fisher price the even have one with a remote control so you can be near the door and set it off. It's neat it has a light and music and ocean sounds.
She may also be off schedule because she's starting to teethe she maybe changing her schedule because she's at a growing spurt or getting ready to start crawling her little body is changing so fast everyday. See if those ideas help a bit. Wish you the best I know the first year can be very hard.
J.M. answers from San Diego on May 13, 2008
Hey Girl,
My daughter did the same thing, she was a great sleeper and then she hit about 6 months and became a cat napper. She sleeps through the night, so I didn't complain. I'd rather have her sleep all night. I agree, if she's just talking and having a good time in her crib, LET HER BE. I put mine in there with some toys and she is fine. She probably just doesn't want to miss anything, she's found a whole new world being us during the day, and she doesn't want to miss one thing. Just keep her entertained with toys, I give mine some cooking spoons and she bangs around on the kitchen floor if Im in there doing dishes. Mine has also started waking up early (since the time change at least) but Im a morning person so it doesn't bother me. Good Luck girl, the good thing is this is your third, so really nothing should surprise you ;0)
R.S. answers from Charleston on May 14, 2008
Hi M.,
My daughter is 10 months old ans was on the same sort of cycle your baby was but when she started cutting teeth our schedule went out the window. I have had many days with 45-50 minute naps which resulted in a very cranky baby. She has started staying up a lot longer between naps as well. I have found that the highlands teething tablets help us more than anything else.
I am also in my forties with two older children. Things are a lot different now than I remember them in my twenties.
R.
C.F. answers from Spartanburg on May 14, 2008
If you find anything that works, please let me know! My 6 month old is doing the exact same thing. He was taking
1 1/2 - 2hour naps and sleeping from 7pm-7am. But just this week he is taking 45 minute naps and not falling asleep until much later and waking up at 5:30am. And boy is he cranky! So I feel your not able to get anything done, exhausted, out of ideas pain.
D.P. answers from Atlanta on May 14, 2008
Well, so long as the babbling and rolling around don't wake you, I would suggest you sleep/work/etc. Don't go in there and teach her that waking in the night means social time. Instead, waking in the night is BORING... so boring, in fact, it just lulls me to sleep... When she's ready to get up, she'll let you know. 'course, you're a mom with experience. You probably already knew that.
Also, unless she's telling you she's hungry, I wouldn't try feeding her. If she seems fine even at 4 hours, she's fine. Try stretching it to 4 1/2 or 5 maybe even 6.
Sounds like she's going through a transition time when her body is reprogramming the whole sleep/eat thing.
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