T.L. asks from San Jose, CA on October 19, 2008
5.5 Months Old Does Not like Tummy Time and Cannot Roll
My baby doesn't like tummy time and cries after staying on her tummy for 3 to 5 minutes. It seems to me she doesn't know how to push her upper body up with her arms so she just tries to lift her head. As a result, she cannot roll yet and I was told babies don't crawl before they master rolling. We bought her a play mat with toys but it doesn't help at all. She loves sitting with support and tries to "walk" when we hold her up. From what I've read, crawling helps brain development so I don't want her to skip rolling and crawling. Is there anyway to help her learn rolling? What is your experience? Thank you very much for your advices.
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L.C. answers from San Francisco on October 26, 2008
My doctor said that now that babies sleep on their backs they tend to rollover later. Anywhere from 4-7 months was considered to be normal now. Just try getting on the floor with her a try just a few minutes at a time. Neither of my kids were big tummy babies and they actually learned to roll from their back to their stomach first.
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A.A. answers from San Francisco on October 20, 2008
I week before he turned 5 months my son just decided to start rolling both directions. He had rolled from tummy to back a couple times when he was 2.5 months but in between just wasn't ready. So one day they'll just be ready and will let you know. I know a lot of babies get frustrated on tummy which is why the cry so just try and keep her down instead of feeling the need to pick her up right away. And try at different times during the day vs. only once. Go down at eye level with her so she knows you're there.
N.K. answers from San Francisco on October 20, 2008
Hi T.,
First of all, don't despair. Sometimes kids are late bloomers. And sometimes kids will entirely skip the crawling stage and move into walking. In the meantime, there are some things you can do that will help your baby whether she crawls or not.
When she does have those 3-5 minutes of tummy time, engage her in really active play. Talk to her and rattle her favorite toys in front of her. Another thing you can do is to get a medium size beach ball and put your baby tummy down on top of the ball. As you hold her, slowly roll the ball forward until her hands touch the ground, then roll backwards until her feet touch the floor. Do this a few times to get her used to putting weight on her arms. The babies generally like this activity. But when she starts getting fussy, it's time to move onto something else.
As far as the rolling, when she is on her tummy, try positioning her hands and arms under so her head is up. Then take a rattle and shake it above her head so she sees it and move it in the direction you want her to roll. Hopefully, she will continue to want to see the rattle and her head and body will turn. You can provide her with help by moving her hips in the direction of the roll.
Good luck. I'm sure your baby will get it. When she is walking around a year from now, this will be a story you can file away to tell her about when she is older. :-)
L.C. answers from San Francisco on October 26, 2008
My doctor said that now that babies sleep on their backs they tend to rollover later. Anywhere from 4-7 months was considered to be normal now. Just try getting on the floor with her a try just a few minutes at a time. Neither of my kids were big tummy babies and they actually learned to roll from their back to their stomach first.
R.D. answers from San Francisco on October 20, 2008
Do tummy time WITH her. It's hard to be interested in stuff if your just on your tummy. So make it a Mommy baby play time to help her have fun with it. You can be on your tummy to rolling and looking like a super mom. Make it FUN!
A.B. answers from Sacramento on October 20, 2008
Hi T.,
My son is over 10mo now, and he is progressing slower than 'typical' with rolling and crawling. He started sitting fairly well, now all on his own, but the tummy time was never a hit. He had reflux, which made tummy time harder, and he is a chubby boy, with a fairly big head to hold up. He started to really roll a lot just a couple months ago (8mo).The dr. always said it was normal for some kids to progress slower; esp if they are chubby. Our little guy looks like he'll start to crawl any day now, but he still just likes to scoot around in circles on his bottom. Don't worry... enjoy that she isn't mobile yet!
A.L. answers from San Francisco on October 19, 2008
Hi T.,
Don't worry too much. My daughter didn't like Tummy time and didn't know how to roll over either. She only started to roll over by herself about 7 months on her own. Once she got that down, then she started to do the tummy time. Slowly, she started to do the baby push up to start the next stage of scooting around. Every baby is different.
J.R. answers from San Francisco on October 20, 2008
My only advice is to just keep trying to do tummy time as much as possible. Try putting toys she likes just out of her reach and to the side so she'll be motivated to reach and roll, and also get down there with her so she can see your face. You can also try rolling her onto her side and see if she'll take over from there. Tummy time can also be on the thighs of your bent legs with her looking out at something like maybe the tv (our little one seems to be fascinated by the lights and colors of the tv and it doesn't seem to matter what program is on). Praise her with lots of hugs, love and kisses after tummy time. Good luck - I think we all struggle with this!
C.F. answers from San Francisco on October 19, 2008
i was worried too but my daughter didn't like tummy time and was slow at rolling over. but once she did roll, she quickly crawled and was walking before 12 months. i don't think you have anything to worry about.
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