N.E. asks from Bettendorf, IA on September 23, 2008
5 Month Old Waking up Because He Can't Roll Back over onto His Back.
My son is now rolling over constantly but can't always roll back onto his back. So now he wakes up crying because he can't roll back over to his back. I'm unsure on whether I should let him figure it out on his own or not. I have been letting him struggle a few minutes and then finally going in to flip him over. I worry because of the SIDS thing. Sometimes when he gets exhausted I find him crying with his little face planted into the mattress. Do I continue helping him out a little until he is strong enough to be able to consistently roll back over or do I let him figure it out on his own?
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B.B. answers from Minneapolis on September 25, 2008
He's only 5 months old? That's scary!! I have a 4-mo old girl and that would make me really nervous too (because of SIDS). He is still so little, I'm sure he doesn't have the strength to pick up his head, or turn over. Luckily, my little girl isn't flipping over yet. How often does it happen in the night? Maybe you should get one of those things that the baby lays in with sides on it to hold him in place. Do you know what I mean? Then he couldn't flip over. I would let him try to flip over on his own if it's daytime and you're watching him, but not at night when you can't see him! Good luck!
J.S. answers from Minneapolis on September 24, 2008
I am having the same problem with my 7 month old son. He can flip over from his back to his belly but now he is choosing to sleep on his stomach and that scares me because a couple of nights ago like you I found his head in the mattress and I then put him on his back and he woke up. I am constantly watching him though because my middle son died last year from SIDS. Hopefully, he can flip himself over. Good luck
Jenn
C.H. answers from Minneapolis on September 24, 2008
My daughter had that exact problem (couldn't roll back, would lay face down). I admit I had her sleep in a bouncy chair until I thought she was good enough at rolling herself back over (she got lots of tummy time during the day). I couldn't get any sleep worrying about her and getting up to roll her back over all night.
A warning: I think sleeping in the chair did give us sleeping problems later.
D.S. answers from Grand Rapids on September 24, 2008
N., no we should never help our kids, of course you can help your child when in need, he is probably just gettting frustrated cause he knows he wants to do it but cant, its ok to help our children when they cant do things, however when they are in school and cant do their homework and you do it for them is a different story,but even then they need help, they have been given parents so the parent helps the child till they are fully capable to do it on their own, help your child, i used to help my kids flip over, it did not hurt them at all, it just reinforces them how to do it, and during the night, they sometimes cry face down, not due to sids but they are tired and cant keep their little heads up, just be a loveing caring mom and things will be fine, and enjoy life, D. s
C.K. answers from Minneapolis on September 24, 2008
I think what you are doing is perfect: letting him try on his own for a few minutes, and then flipping him over. Before you know it, he will be able to roll on his own and this issue will be resolved. No need to call your pediatrician!
The risk of SIDS decreases once the baby is strong enough to roll around.
During the day, let him struggle with it. That is how he will learn to do it, and grow strong enough to do it.
A.H. answers from Minneapolis on September 23, 2008
hello, I would help him roll back over and call your pediatrician in the morning to talk about this and what they recommend.
C.D. answers from La Crosse on September 24, 2008
You can bypass risking SIDS and having to make him "figure it out on his own" by cosleeping with the little guy. That is the best way for a baby to learn to sleep on his own. The rhythm of your heartbeat and the warmth the cosleeping arrangement provides a safe and secure sleeping arrangement. Cosleeping is a safe and healthy way to help your little one establish very good and life-long sleeping habits. If you are open to trying, look for the cosleeping safety guidelines in the Baby Book by Dr. Sears.
C.W. answers from Des Moines on September 23, 2008
Hi N. u said ur son is 5 months old. Anywayz i think u should continue helping him out on his back because he is young and i also think u should take him to the doctor and get him checked out to see what the problem is.
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