M.R. asks from Aurora, IL on February 20, 2009
4 Year Old Birthday Party Ideas - Aurora,IL
Hi Moms.
I am having my son's 4th birthday party a the house. I would like to have a nice party without too much expense. There are 5 friends coming, 2 of them are a couple years younger.
I am looking for an idea for a game to play and I am looking for a creative idea for the 'gift bag.' I am open to not acutally doing a goodie bag if there is an inexpensive and more creative option. Girls and boys are coming.
Thanks in advance for you creative ideas.
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S.S. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
The Dollar stores are perfect for this situation. You could get each child just one thing but wrap it up.
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K.H. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
When my daughter turned 4, instead of having a pinata, we put some candy inside a bunch of balloons. The kids had to pop the balloons to get the candy out! The kids had a lot of fun with it.
K.K. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
My personal soap box is I hate goodie bags...drives me crazy that kids can't just go to a party to celebrate a birthday without receiving something in return.
A friend of mine got cookies from a local bakery. They said her sons name and maybe his age. They were about 2.50 a piece
I took old baby food jars filled them with m & ms and tied a balloon to it
Good Luck
C.M. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
If I am spending money on crafts or activities, I make it something the kids can take home as their "goodie bag". They can bead jewelry, stick foam letters on a can coozy, paint a little box, etc.
No need to buy both games/activities AND parting gifts. I agree with those who don't like the goodie bag idea. How did we get to the point of going to someone else's birthday party and expecting something cool to take home? I always talk to my kids about that when we're going to a party...nothing is worse than the kid waiting to go home and demanding his goodie bag. Rude!
Does your son like animals? We had a "dog" party once. We made collars (beads on a leather string), painted faces, made foam dog ears, ate out of dog dishes we decorated with jewels, and crawled around on the floor. Fun for any age and they had great reusable things to take home.
K.B. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
We just had a 5 year old b-day party at our house. It was for a girl, but many of the activities were gender neutral. Musical Chairs was a big hit. We also did cookie decorating and then that was their favor to take home. Another hit was "Pin the Princess in her Castle." You could substitute any picture and give each child a sticker to ask them to try to place it on the correct target while blindfolded.
M.J. answers from Chicago on February 20, 2009
We had lots of fun doing a treasure hunt at my son's party last week. I did have a goody bag, but it had a glow stick, some stickers, a bouncy ball and I few other non-food items in it. I don't like to give out candy (with my oldest being 14 I'm kind of jaded that way).
I had plain bags that they decorated when they got there so then their goody bag was unique (and pretty cheap since I used brown lunch bags).
I got some game ideas from here and got some books from the library. Some of the books were ancient, but the game ideas were still good!
S.S. answers from Chicago on February 21, 2009
The Dollar stores are perfect for this situation. You could get each child just one thing but wrap it up.
S.B. answers from Chicago on February 20, 2009
A friend did a treasure hunt type party where she took pictures of each 'clue' and then cut the photo up into 4-5 pieces. The kids had to put the puzzle of a photo back together to get the next clue and when they found the clue they got something for their goodie bag and the picture of the next clue.
Since the 4 year olds could not read, the photo clue was a great idea.
I'm wondering if I could use this for my 5 year old daughter's party but she wants to have 8-10 guests and I'm not sure that it will work very well with a bigger crowd.
E.P. answers from Chicago on February 20, 2009
For my 4 year old girl - it was a Cinderella party; for my son at that age, it was a mini carnival - with little games (i.e. bozo buckets, a water/cup relay, mini obstacle course, played limbo, musical chairs, hot potato, etc...) Oh... I forgot all the balloon games that we did, too. You could even do some kind of game with hot wheel cars - maybe a race! Scavenger hunts are a cute idea.
If you didn't want to do a traditional goodie bag, you could either do a big, fancy frosted sugar cookie, to fit the theme of the party, from a bakery or you can do yourself. Or, I noticed, the other day, that our dollar store carried "popcorn" printed bags. You could throw a microwave popcorn, theatre-size box of candy, small can (6 oz) pop in there.
Have fun!
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