L.S. asks from Camp Hill, PA on September 30, 2008
4 Month Old-solid Foods Questions
I have a 4 month old son who is almost 18 lbs. He is a big boy(doctors say he is going to be very tall like his dad) The doctors are saying to just give him a tablespoon of cereal each day with 4 tablespoons of formula, but that doesn't seem to be enough. Other moms I ran into briefly in the grocery store said that they gave their baby's stage 1 food early too but we didn't discuss how much etc.. I am unsure of how much stage one baby food to feed him in a day with his formula/rice cereal... or if I should start with veggies or fruits.. does anyone have any suggestions or sample feeding schedule that they used or recommend? Thanks in advance!
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I just wanted to thank everyone for their responses! I really appreciate all of the time and support! After talking to my pediatrician again, I decided to stick with just giving him rice by spoon (and in his bottle) until his next appointment when we will be discussing solid foods etc.... Thanks again everyone!
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B.D. answers from Pittsburgh on September 30, 2008
I held off all solids until 6 months to avoid food allergies. Even so my youngest still has food allergies despite no family history. Food allergies can be a serious threat so I would reconsider starting solids and bumping up his formula if he is still hungry.
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B.K. answers from Pittsburgh on October 01, 2008
Hi L.! Give the boy some more cereal! You also don't have to make it so thin if he is not pushing it out and actually eating it! Start with veggies! One new veggie every few days or week just to make sure he doesn't have an allergic reaction to it. You can start with cereal in the morning after his bottle, then a veggie at dinner time. If that isn't enough you can do a veggie and some cereal at dinner. Check out the book What to Expect the first year. I found it to be very helpful! Good luck and best wishes!
N.A. answers from Philadelphia on October 01, 2008
You def have to start with veggies. You dont want to get him used to the sweetness of fruits then he will never eat veggies. Im a mother of four daughters and each child is different. The doctor would always tell me not to feed them food til at least 6 months but i would go by what they wanted. Try just cereal in the morning. Then a veggie for dinner. But make sure he is still taking a good amount of his bottles during the day. When you start them on foods he still need the supplements from the formula so dont cut back on that. Well good luck I hope I helped at least a little.
K.B. answers from Harrisburg on October 01, 2008
I wouldn't rush into the jar food yet. Just give more cereal at a sitting. The oatmeal is heavier and tastier than the rice.
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K.B. answers from Philadelphia on October 01, 2008
L.,
I have 3 boys and each was different with foods. My 5 1/2 month old is still getting started on cereal. We did try squash, but he was refusing his bottle even after only about 1/3 of the 1st foods container. I tried the bottle first, but then he wasn't interested in the food. All babies are different.
You do need to take a little consideration to what the dr said. He/she knows your baby better than we do. Not sure when you're feeding the cereal. If you haven't done it like this, try it. Sounds like he can handle the food first. Have the bottle ready to put it right in after he is done. Don't be tempted to do too much too soon. My son likes the cereal thicker. Add a little more, but you could also bump him up on his formula. An extra oz in each bottle will add up for him. If he's a spitter, try a little cereal in the bottle (with Y nipple). You could also give a "snack" bottle if he seems to need it.
All just advice since I don't know all about you and your baby. Just don't try too much at once or too much too soon. Gradually is the way to go.
J.F. answers from Scranton on October 01, 2008
Hi, I was in your place. One of mine wouldn't stop eating. I followed my mothers advice and used plain yogurt. just a very small spoon full in her bottle a few times a day. It thickens it nicely and filled my lil one no problem. Its a lot easier then trying to feed a baby who might not be ready for solid foods, it also wont clog the the nipple like cereal does. Hope this helps
Jenn
S.B. answers from Philadelphia on October 01, 2008
My son was a big eater (still is, he's now one and eats the same amount at breakfast & dinner as I do, his lunches are usually a little smaller). We started him on rice at 3 months. By four months he was on stage one foods. We started with yellow veggies, then green veggies, then fruits (fruits are really sweet & kids usually love them, they say to intro them last so they don't reject the "plain" veggies). By 5 months he had tried all the stage ones & was on to stage twos. By six months he was on stage 3 and eating finger foods. Most doctors today will tell you this is too fast, but every kid is different, this is what worked best with our son.
I think 1 tbsp of rice to 4 of formula sounds really runny. I never actually measured anything myself. I used to dump some rice in a small bowl & add some water until it looked to be a good consistency. I never made mine really runny, it made too much of a mess. I also think stage 1 and 2 foods are too runny. I used to make my own with much less water & he could swallow it just fine.
When we started him on food I gave him the rice at dinner time. I gave him as much as he was willing to eat. At first that was less than a tbsp. Within 2 weeks he was up to about 5 tbsp (i'm told this is an unusually large amount for a baby at one sitting, but again he was fine). I always stopped when he turned his head away. We later added a second solid rice meal at breakfast. Again as much as he would eat. By 4 1/2 months we were up to 3 meals a day, varying rice, fruits & veggies (a different thing at each meal). And at each sitting we let him eat as much as he wanted. This would change every day. Sometimes it was only 1/2 a jar, sometimes a whole jar, sometimes 1 1/2 jars (this was usually during a growth spurt). When he regularly ate more than a jar we went up to the stage 2 foods. When he was regularly eating more than one jar of that at a sitting we went up to stage 3.
I always fed him close to my meal times (either just before or after I ate) I figured this would make the transition to regular foods & meals with the family easier. It seems to have worked.
When you get to the stage 3 foods, make sure you read the ingredients; especially if you get their early. I was shocked & found out most of my friends had no idea what was in some of them. Many of them have added sugar. All the "desserts" do, but so do some of the others. Also a lot of the dinners have eggs in them. Babies are not supposed to get (I think I have this right) yolks til 9months & whites until 1 year. Some of the dinners had egg whites, egg yolks, or even whole eggs in them. So make sure you check. This is not a problem with stage 1 & 2 foods.
Good luck
C.J. answers from Harrisburg on September 30, 2008
I did cereal at 5 months, and held off till six months for food. If I remember correctly I was going through 1 jar a day(you must feed them the same food for three to four days to see if there is a reaction), the go to the next food. I started veggies first cause I found in a few kids that if I started giving them fruit first they did not like the veggies later. Every kid is different. Starting green is better I have found(peas, green beans). Babies are less likely to have a allergic reaction to green veggies. Good luck, but my advice is to just stick it out with the cereal. Talk to you ped.
D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on September 30, 2008
I'd stick with the cereal only. No matter how large your son is, his stomach has only been functioning for about 120 days now and probably can't handle too much "real food."
Careful with the cereal--he may not be capable of swallowing solids yet.
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