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3 And Half Year Old Has Started Biting Her Nails

I have a wonderful 3 and half year old who has recently started biting her fingernails. As an infant she never wanted a binky and never really sucked her thumb. She did used to suck/chew on her fingers as an infant, but had grown out of that in the last year. Now, she constantly chews on her fingernails - I can't even trim them because she's chewed them so low. Does anyone have tips on getting her to stop? I'm sure it's no surprise that my constant nagging doesn't seem to be working!

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You ladies are awesome! I got some great advice, but the best was confirmation of my concerns that this might be a sign that my daughter is suffering from some anxiety. She has recently had some bad dreams that she woke up from in tears. She has also expressed worry that I might go away. I'm going to seek out some professional advice about the anxiety for sure. I've also started talking with her more about her fears and we are praying together about it too. I think all of this will help. I hope that we will have some nice, long fingernails to paint in the very soon!
Thanks again for everything!

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Hi C.,

My neice did the same thing. There is an over the counter medicine that her doctor told her about. Now mommy/daughter put it on together and she says it has been working. If you decide and want to know the name of it just let me know and I can call her for you.

Good luck!

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There is a clear fingernail polish that is designed to taste awful. You can find it at any drug store. Mittens may help too. If neither of those work you may have to wait until she is older and use pennies in her pocket. for the pennies give her 10 pennies to jingle in her pocket, every time she bites she gives one back. At the end of the day she keeps whatever is left. When the habbit is broken she can spend it!

you could try setting down and exsplaining what all gets under your nails in a day. If she is like most little princesses she will be repulsed by it. I have a 4 year old boy and we walked around the house finding everything he touched and we followed the dog round (that was what did it) then we talked about how many of the things he saw he wanted in his mouth. suprise...... he didnt.

I have just recently got my 3.5 year old to stop. We used "nail medicine" (what I told him) or Malva STOP nail polish that tastes REALLY bad! At first it did not work. But after about a week of applying it daily I noticed his nails was showing some growth!!! I gave him TONS of praise! TONS!!!!! and even a special treat. We still talk about it, and tell everyone (grandma and grandpa and aunt and uncles) that Caiden didn't chew his nails!!!!

This is what worked for us!
This is where i got it!

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Let's add one more to the "What the heck do I do now?!" boat. My son, who's 4 1/2 has been doing the same thing for at least a year now. I don't know how to stop it, and forget to ask the Doc when we visit.

Whoever finds something that works let the rest of us know?

In the same boat,
M.

My son was about that age when he started biting his nails. I watched him to try to figure out why he was doing it. For him, it was out of boredom or when he was nervous about something. I did have to resort to a paint on ascorbic acid (really sour, non-toxic) liquid that was made especially for nail biting because he was biting them down so badly. I got it at our local Safeway. I also started him on bead stringing, a lot of coloring, and hands on crafts, just to keep his hands busy! Good luck!

I am also having the same problem with my 6 year old son. I cannot figure out why but he cannot stop. Any suggestions?

don't they have stuff that tastes nasty to put on the nails?

figure out a punishment that will make them stop.

My 2 year old did it and it really upset me because I did it into adulthood and it was embarassing. I ended up mail-ordering this "nail polish" that is made from bitter cactus root and it tastes AWEFUL. I hated doing it, but after about a month, I actually paint my daughter's fingernails as a reward because she has totally stopped. Make sure not to give her finger food while you're doing this, she can't help but put her fingers in her mouth in this case. It's called Nibble No More by Jessica Cosmetics.

http://www.jessicacosmetics.com/miva/merchant.mvc?Screen=...

I tried some other brands that weren't strong enough. Good luck. A.

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