L.B. asks from Midland, TX on August 06, 2009
3 1/2 Year Old Frequently Blinking
Hidy great parents! My son has started this frequent blinking. I am about to have his vision checked but am wondering if it might be allergy or anxiety related. Have any of you experienced this? For some reason, it's freaking me out. He is also not pronouncing his words very clearly. He has a large vocabulary, but just can't understand some of it. At what age did yours start speaking well? Don't know whether to get his eyes checked first or his ears. Why can't we have one stop shopping and get eyes, ears, and teeth all done in one visit.
Thanks for your input. I'm amazed at what y'all come up with.
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M.P. answers from Houston on August 07, 2009
My nephew did the eye blinking when he was younger and doesn't do it now. It was a nervous/stress related tic. His mom would notice it way more after he had been playing video games.
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J.C. answers from San Antonio on August 06, 2009
My son had the same thing and the doctor said it was because his eyes were dry from his allergies. I was worried about it, but it seems to have gotten better with time.
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S.W. answers from Houston on August 11, 2009
Hi L.
I dont want to freak you out more than you already are and im truly sorry if I do... You should have your little guy checked for seizures that may be what is causing the freq. eye blinking. i could be wrong...just a sugesstion.
Here is a sight u can look into and maybe rule out seizuers:
yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/seizures-in-children.html
May God Bless you and your family...
Keep us posted.
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L.B. answers from San Antonio on August 08, 2009
At 3 and a half, the Moms are all right. It could be any combo of things, but also do not rule out Tourette's Syndrome. My son began exhibiting the blinking at about 4 years old, and it escalated into grunts, snorts, nose-wrinkling, eye-rolling and a host of other symptoms.
We disregarded most of the warnings because my husband said they were just "habits" and he had the same habits when he was growing up! RED FLAG! Tourette's is inherited, and often affects boys more than girls! My husband had it all his life, and was never properly diagnosed until after my son was diagnosed.
We still didn't accept the diagnosis, and had my son tested for 2 solid years before we ever gave him medicine, which took away his appetite, creativity, and made him a sad, moody mess. It is a Neurological disorder, and certain meds, like Ritalin, can increase the tics and make the tics uncontrollable and/or irreversible. We learned this in our research and refused to give him the drugs which could exacerbate the tics.
The tics will increase during new situations, times when the child is forced to be still for long periods, especially at school; any change in routine, and during stressful times, such as during a baseball game, i.e., batting or trying to catch a hit ball.
We had top neurologists back east, refused to be told he must be medicated in school, managed his diet and sleep, and specialists said he could outgrow the tics by age 16.
We bless God. He did outgrow them completely by age 17.
Stay proactive and do your homework, and seek wise counsel, and your son will prevail,too.
This, and the brain tumor are probably the more serious issues, so don't let doctors talk you out of repeated testing each year, especially when you observe changes. Moms still know best, when something's not quite right...
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R.S. answers from Austin on August 07, 2009
My husband had similar symptoms at the same age (rapid blinking, slurred speech) and it ended up being a brain tumor (astrocytoma) that had to be removed surgically. I don't mean to alarm you, but if it is a tumor, it's going to be important to get an MRI ASAP. He's fine now but at that age the earlier you get it taken care of the greater the chances the brain will heal well. May God bless you, and I hope it is just an allergy.
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T.V. answers from Houston on August 07, 2009
You are asking 2 questions. And they might not be related. My middle started this blinking recently too and I think it's allergies. She's fine otherwise, just dry eyes.
Speech tends to clear up as kids get older, by elemntary they should be speaking clearly. If speech was good and now ALONG with the blinking is regressing that's a different issue and you need to talk to your pedi ASAP.
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J.T. answers from Victoria on August 07, 2009
i notice that kids who go to daycare speak better than kids that stay at home. it all seems to pan out by elementary school. i would definatly have his eyes checked. btw i think if we did it all in one go it would be too stressful for the little ones but wouldnt it be much eaiser/ quicker for us!
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C.W. answers from Waco on August 07, 2009
Hi L.,
this could be from dry eye- or sunlight- or allergies- or none of the above. The inability to pronounce words at that age is not that all alarming- some children are just a little slower than others- but I would definitely have both his eyes and ears checked.
I suspect if you detox your home and use eco friendly products for your house cleaning and laundry some of these issues may disappear.
good luck and blessings
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J.C. answers from San Antonio on August 06, 2009
My son had the same thing and the doctor said it was because his eyes were dry from his allergies. I was worried about it, but it seems to have gotten better with time.
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D.G. answers from Houston on August 08, 2009
I'd talk to his pediatrician about your concerns.
It could be allergies/hayfever, and if he is congested it could be affecting his hearing/speech.... Hard to say what it is without getting him checked out.
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