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2 y.o. Waking TOO EARLY!

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we changed dd's bed to a toddler bed last weekend and she is exploring her freedom more every day. seems like she is waking 15 minutes earlier each day and coming in to the hallway calling "mommy". i try getting her back to sleep, but she is pretty wide awake, asking for breakfast. (is she hungry?)

i realized i should give more info: dd is waking when it is still VERY dark outside... the sun has been coming up around 7am. also, during her naptimes, i shut her door and lock it (since she figured out how to open it with a little persistence) this has worked out really well so far. YESTERDAY and this morning, she actually stayed in her bed and called for me rather than getting up and coming to the door, or into our bedroom in the morning. we leave her door open at nite because it heats her room and our more evenly (the thermostat is in our bedroom across the hall). TODAY she woke up around 6am, so i'm hoping the early waking was just a part of the transition! (WHEN she wakes up, I may rock her and try and get her back to sleep, but almost always she comes into bed with me and dh for cuddle time...and sometimes does fall back asleep. Lately, however, she has been very wide awake and only cuddles about 15 minutes before asking for "ice cream"!... and YES, I do get her breakfast immediately upon getting out of bed <after cuddle time>... I have done this always, since she stopped nursing, since that was the first thing she did upon waking before)

i'm 20 weeks pregnant and NEED MY REST and would like to find a way to get her to sleep until at least 6am. i've heard of getting a digital clock and putting the number 6 covering the minutes next to the hour number... and telling them they can't get up until the numbers match... using an alarm or a timer on their light...

what has worked for you? please help!

darci

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It's hard to tell what the problem may be without knowing more, what time does she go to bed, does she take naps, ect. It may be that she is just reacting to being put in her bed or that she is getting older and getting enough sleep to wake up that early. Try letting her skip a nap or staying up an hour later and see how that goes. My 2 year old daughter usually plays in her crib for about an hour before she wants me to go get her, but I don't know if you can trust that in a bed. The bed is still new though, and a big change for her, so she probably needs to get used to it.

For about $10 you can get a device (at home depot) that you can plug a light into which then plugs into an outlet. This device can be set to whatever time you want and only when it's activated will it pass the electricity through to the light. We use one for a table lamp in our hallway when we go on vacation so it looks like someone's home. I haven't used them for this yet but your clock idea made me think of it. You could plug a nightlight into it and set it for 6 or 6:30. If the light is off, she has to stay in bed. If it's lit, she can get up and come get you. That may work better than the clock since, as one poster already pointed out, she may not be able to match the numbers yet and even if she can that will require her to wake up enough to process the thoughts required to match the numbers. With the light she can rollover, see that it's not lit yet and roll right back over to continue sleeping. Just make sure you use a dim nightlight that won't wake her if she's still sleeping when it lights up. Good luck!

Hi Darci. Hopefully things are getting better as time goes on. You said you put your daughter in her own bed last weekend...this could be just a transition for her (fingers crossed). I know if we change anything, for example the time change for daylight savings, my 2 year old took 2 weeks to start getting up at normal time. So, hopefully the novelty of getting out of bed on her own and when she wants to will wear off. I have to say I agree with your first response about putting up a gate or something and having her stay in her room until you say it's time to get up. I think cutting outnaps, or changing bed time will not be good in the long run. if anything this time right now is a good time to let her understand the rules and for you to be consistent.

Anyway, hopefully that helped. Bless you for doing the switch this soon. I'm not that brave. :) I could see my little guy doing the same thing!!! Good luck!

Try getting light block curtains to give the illusion that it is dark and early, she may become drowsy again and fall back to sleep and/or giving her a safe and quiet toy to play with. These things will give you more (not a TON more) sleep that it would if she didn't have anything to play with.
I like the idea of gating her room and child proofing it really well, I think that would work wonders for you.

Sweetie, i know it's hard being pregnant and all..... Still trying to tend to the little one. If she/he wakes up hungry...fix her something to eat... Even if they are not hungry...u would have tended to your babys' need.. Most of the time they just want ur attn and want to be w/ mommy. Let her get in bed w/u when she gets up early

I agree with Monica. Try keeping her up later. Try ditching a nap, or waking her early from it. I know its tough because you get quiet time at night when she finally goes down and you get free time to do housework during her nap. But, I'm sure you could sacrifice a bit of that for another hour or so of good restful sleep! Good Luck!

Hi--My son is only 11 months old so I haven't done this yet. But I do know people who put the digital clock in the room with only the hour showing. It worked for them but don't set an alarm you never know maybe she'll sleep in one day.

Hi, I don't know if this will help or u will get her addicted to it. I bought a Homedics SoundSpa Lullaby Sound Machine with Picture Projection from Bed Bath & Beyond. (i thought about getting a small CD alarm clock but saw this instead, also think the CD player might get broken fast!)I am sure u can find it online. After his naptime routine, I put him in his crib & put the machine on with a timer. I set it for 30min. but he falls asleep much quicker. You only have to press a few buttons so its very fast & easy to use. If he happens to wake up too early in the morning, we put it on & he goes back to sleep. I have told him if the music goes off & u are still wake then I will take u out of the crib. He is usually asleep soon so we don't have to worry. Of course, there are times when he just won't go back. But we can tell when he wakes up upset, he def. needs more sleep. The only problem we have encountered with this machine & prob. some others is there are times he wakes up in the middle of the night & yells for his music. So my husband thinks now he can't get himself back to sleep. And needs his music to get back. So I created a music monster :) So I will have to warn u about that. Otherwise, give it a try. Maybe u will get some sleep when u are pregnant. And u can always use for the next child. Especially since the machine seems like it is for an infant.
P.S my son is almost 2 1/2. He have him in a crib still since he doesn't climb out. He has a few times but not consistently. So we are putting off the todder bed as long as possible.

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