I don't know any 13 month olds who like their faces wiped, cleaned or messed with at all. Take the glasses one day at a time. If your son truely is far sited then he will quickly realize that the glass are what make him see better and he will wear them.
Try just having him wear them for short periods of time. 30 min several times a day and work up to wearing them all the time.
The glasses really are for his own good. wouldn't you perfur
he wear the glassed to fix his crossed eyes rather than him have to go through surgery.
please don't take this the wrong way but you sound like you are already made up your mind that the glasses are not going to work befor really trying to work with your son to get him to wear them.
best of luck to you