11 Year Old Daughter

Updated on June 19, 2008
D.R. asks from Phoenix, AZ
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Hi Ladies,
My 11 year old daughter is having a problem, it started about 1-1 1/2 months ago. At first, she was telling me that all of a sudden she would feel like she had "wet" her pants. I might add that she has never had a problem with that. When she told me about it was right after she had felt it, so I suggested that she go to the bathroom and "check"....being that she is so close to starting her period. She said there was nothing there. After that I started asking her questions, trying to figure out if there was possibly another problem. Now, this evening, she was in the bathroom 4 times in a matter of 30 minutes! Of course I got concerned. I asked her what was going on...she told me that she kept feeling like she needed to pee, so she went to the bathroom, but nothing happens!
Please help, I am not sure what is happening. I was very, very young when I first started my period, so I just dont remember things that happened shortly before the first.
Any help from moms with girls that may have gone thru something similar that could help me out would be a great help! Thank you in advance!!!

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So What Happened?

Thank you to every one who responded!!!! It looks like we are all on the same track! I took my daughter to the doctor yesterday, they did a UA and the priliminary results were negative for UTI and Bladder infection. They are sending it to the lab to make sure though. Also, while the doctor was checking her tummy, the only place she was hurting was at the Uterus/Bladder area, and since one is right in front of the other we are not sure which one is hurting. So, the doctor said that both we should be prepared for her first period. Which she is not looking forward to.
I definately appreciate your notes, they encoraged me that I was on the right path also.

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R.S.

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Perhaps it may be worth a trip to the doctor. As my experience as a nurse tells me, she is exhibiting possible symtpoms of a urinary problem. If you have not already done so, have her increase her fluids until she is examined by a doctor, no caffeine. There are over the counter products that may help if she has burning or stinging, but if it is a urinary tract infection these products wont get rid of the infection, however antibiotics will.

Hope this helps.

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K.F.

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does she have a urinary tract infection?

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C.K.

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Hi D.,

She might have a uti? I've had one a couple of times, and it's really uncomfortable, and the urge to pee is intense, but nothing happens. Is your daughter drinking enough water? With the recent change in weather and the heat here in general, and dehydration can do funny things to the body. If her condition persists, I would take her to the doctor, eliminating waste from the body shouldn't be taken lightly. Good luck:)

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E.M.

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Sensations of needing to urinate may have nothing to do with her impeding menstrual maturity. Her period may be first on your mind...but it may or may not be the issue here.
I had my first urinary tract infection about 12...urgency can be a part of it. I would be concerned that nothing is coming out....is she going at all, anytime?? We all have to pee!
I have heard some disturbing stuff about girls and women and too much trampoline time can damage the pelvic floor...( or even more extreme....sky diving). Apparently we are not designed for repeated impacts like that. Just an idea.

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S.T.

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With all the responses here that I see. When I first read your response thats what came to mind is a uti. That is a sure sign of it. I began my period when I was 12 it just came no side effects or nothing. So I think your daughter has uti. Take her to the doctor.

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T.H.

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There is a possibility that she has a urinary track infection.

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J.D.

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Sounds like a bladder infection to me. You may want to have your pediatrician check on that

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C.D.

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I'd set up an appt. w/the doctor. She could be starting to get a bladder or urinary tract infection.

The other possibility, which doesn't necessarily make you feel like you need to pee, but rather that your panties are wet, is her hormones kicking in, causing a heavy discharge. I would consider taking her to an OB/GYN just to rule out anything.

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S.V.

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Not sure, but could it be a UTI?? Urinary Tract Infection?? I would start giving her Cranberry Juice immediately and get her in to see the doctor ASAP. Good Luck

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M.L.

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Is it possible she has a urinary track infection or bladder infection. Have her drink LOTS of cranberry juice-the good stuff. If that doesn't work have her checked out at a dr.

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R.E.

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It sounds to me like she has a UTI (urinary tract infection). Take her to the doctor to get her started on antibiotics. In the meantime, you can get her an over-the-counter remedy that will give her some relief until she can get to the doctor.

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