11-Month Troubles with Afternoon Nap

Hi, your daughter seems to sleep a lot. I wouldn't worry about her not getting enough sleep at all. I understand if it is good for you to get a break, especially when you work from home. But, if she is tired she will sleep. My daughter stopped napping twice a day about that age too, I would say that is normal. Good luck.

She might be getting ready to switch to one long mid day nap rather than the morning and afternoon. My DS went to a 3-4 hour after lunch nap at that age. Now (2 1/2) he still naps after lunch, but only for 2 hours.

Good luck,
T.

Most children around 12months when they start walking will go to only 1 nap per day mostly early afternoon. Mom to 4 year old and a 15 month old, so move the morning nap to the afternoon and bedtime 7 pm

Hi J.,

Your daughter sounds like my son a bit. He went from one to two naps at about that time as well. I spoke to my doctor at the 12 month check up and she assured me that even though he took only one 1 to 1.5 hour nap he was getting so much sleep at night (11 or more hours) that he was well in the normal range for how much sleep he needs. He's now 18 months and doing very well - very happy and well rested. He takes one late morning nap - though it can move later if we are doing something in the morning that prevents napping. He goes to bed very early - 6:00 to 6:30 most days and sleeps for about 12 hours. He lets us know if he needs a second nap (when he has a cold for example). But once I gave up on trying to force a second nap everything got much easier around the house and everyone is much happier. I also read that book you mentioned as my sister and sister in law found it really helpful but it just never worked with our baby. Again- once I stopped worrying about it I realized that he was really thriving on his own schedule. Pretty much non stop every minute until sleep comes. Good luck!

It sounds like she's ready for one nap a day. I would try moving her morning nap to an hour later and see how that goes then move it another hour later until you get to just after lunch time. My son dropped his morning nap at 7 months... used to sleep for 40 minutes 2 times a day and now sleeps from 12 noon to 2pm easily... sometimes longer. Hopefully the transition will go smoothly for both of you.

Hello J.,

I have a 10 1/2 month daughter who started going through change. Her growing, crawling to standing, teething, eating more, and going from 3 naps to 2 a day. I know it gets frustrating to try and figure it all out but you just take one day at a time. I have loged all her eating and naps and its working out better to find the right combo. It only took about a week or so. My daughter is up by 6:30-7 a.m. I feed her 4 Tb Cereal & 7 Tb of Fruit then around 8:45 she has a 4 oz bottle and nap by 9:00 in her swing. She is out for usually 1 hour then feeding at 11:00 - 3 Tb Turkey dinner & 2 Tb Vegetables & 3 Tb Fruit and 4 oz bottle at 12:00. Usually between 1 & 2 she will go down for her 2nd nap usually 1-2 hours then 3:00 feeding 3 Tb Turkey dinner & 4-7 Tb Fruit (depending on how hungry she is) and snacks & water/juice around 5:00 to have dinner as a family then 7:00 bath, 7:30 6 oz bottle and in bed at 8:00. There are some days that her second nap doesnt go as planned but if I lay her down and she refuses then I just hold her & play with her until bed time. Yes she is very cranky and tired but that was her choice not to nap. This was a perfect example yesterday :0) but not the first time. She slept well through the night and up again this morning working on her schedule again. There are days that will work and days that will not. Just breath and relax and know tomorrow is another day. I hope it helps!!!

Hon, you have to relax. Just follow her ques. I have 4 kids, and im 29 SAHM....so im just an old pro here. I would say, put her down at 8:30 pm...she should sleep until 6:30 or 7am. She is probably old enough now to not need 2 naps in the afternoon. If you try to have her sleep too much she will get anxcious and over wired. For the afternoon nap try putting her down at 11:30 or 12, after a nice lunch. She should sleep from anywhere between 2 and 3 hours. Messing with the sleep schedule as you are right now is not good. Best thing to do is just tune into your lil baby girl and you will be just fine. Im here if you have questions.

Some kids don't require as much sleep as others. My daughter gave up her morning nap at 10 months, much to my disappointment. During the transition, I just moved her afternoon nap way up and then slowly adjusted it back to a more normal time for us (12:30-1:00pm). When I did this she did much better than I expected. I thought she would be cranky and overtired in the evenings, but she was very happy and cooperative. We did move her nighttime bedtime up by 45 minutes during the transition also, but then pushed it back by about 30 minutes once she had successfully transitioned.

J.,
My oldest daughter stopped taking a morning nap at 10 months old. She would (and still does) take a nap after lunch for anywhere from 2 to 4 hours. Now my other daughter (12 months) is changing from two to one nap. She has been in the process for about 2 months now but still takes a morning nap every now and then. It is totally normal at this age to switch to one nap, but some children don't make the switch for quite dome time. Make sure you read her cues and act accordingly.
Good luck!
J.

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We just dropped my 19 month old daughter's morning nap, because she was basically doing the same kind of thing. She now naps from about 12:30-3:00 consistently and is well rested. She also sleeps at night from 7:30-6:30. It seems that 11 months may be early to drop the morning nap, but if her nap habits continue then you may need to drop the nap.

Hi J.,
I am a HUGE fan of Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. I have used this book as a sleep guide since my 3 yr old was born with great success. When activities made it impossible for me to put my daughter down for her afternoon nap at her normal time and putting her down later only caused additional sleep problems, I would skip the afternoon nap for that day and put her to bed for the night MUCH earlier. As long as this didn't happen often it worked perfectly. I also keep track of how long it takes for her to fall asleep, how her attitude is, and how long she slept, adjusting her nap times and bedtime accordingly. I have found that putting Paige in bed to nap at the wrong biological time had worse effects than skipping it and moving the bedtime earlier on those days. I would try getting her to bed at night even earlier and moving her nap times to around 9am and 1pm. Your mom may have an easier time, especially if she is doing the EXACT same routine as you. My mom watches my daughter one day a week also and I wrote down my nap routine with times and had her follow it to the "T". Things got better as long as she followed it and didn't cave if my daughter fussed. If your daughter continues to have difficulty with her afternoon nap even after doing everything I suggested, email me. She could be trying to drop a nap in the same way my daughter did at this age and I can tell you what I tried and what worked for us.
Sincerely,
L.

Hi J.,
Sounds like your daughter might be ready to consolidate naps by skipping the morning nap, and moving the afternoon nap up earlier in the day. My daughter transitioned to one nap at about 13 months, and it took a good month before the transition was complete, but maybe your daughter is ready to do that. I would put her down at 11 or 12, and see how that works. I know, during the transition, the lunch time is kinda messed up for awhile. I gave my daughter part of her lunch before nap (around 11ish), since she wasn't quite hungry for a full meal yet. Then gave her the remainder (whatever she didn't eat) after her nap (around 2:00ish). She'll probably be tired, but try to stretch her until 11:00ish. Then, if she is successful at taking just one nap, you can slowly push the nap later and later until she can go down around 12 or 1:00 after lunch. She'll probably take a good long nap for you. (My daughter is extremely active, too, and at 2.5 years old, she still takes 2-3 hour naps! Maybe because they are so busy all day long moving and talking non-stop!). Anyway, I was originally sad to go down to just one nap/day. And some days, she still needed two naps during the transition month. But once she was down to just the afternoon nap only, I had a new sense of freedom--getting to be out and about running errands or doing whatever I needed to do during the morning hours. Then my afternoon was at-home time to have down time and quiet! You'll also find, that once she's down to one nap, she will want to go to bed earlier, too (Bonus!!), say around 7:30. And she'll still probably sleep until her normal morning wake up time. Which means more peaceful evening hours for you, too! Good luck! Just remember, everything takes awhile when you're transitioning/consolidating nap times. Just be patient and try it out. It may not work every day, but eventually it will.

A.

Hi J.,

It sounds like she's ready for 1 nap. Try putting her down later in the morning and let her sleep 2-3 hours. If she is tired in the afternoon, move bedtime up. Our daughter is about the same age and started doing the same thing. She goes to daycare 3 days a week and in her room they nap only once at this age. Good luck, you will find a schedule that works for you both. Personally, I like the 1 nap schedule. It gives us the morning to run errands and the afternoon to play!