E.S. asks from Baltimore, MD on December 16, 2007
10 Year Old Son Wets Bed Need Some Advice
My son has a bed wetting problem. He uses an alarm clock to wake him up in the middle of the night to remind him to get up and use the bathroom, but that doesn't seem to help. In addition, he doesn't drink liquids after and that doesn't help either. His doctor refuses to prescribe medicine to help him because she wants him to naturally learn how to not wet the bed. I've run out of ideas. Any suggestions?
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K.H. answers from Norfolk on December 18, 2007
My stepson wet the bed every night until he was about 6 years old. The doctor wasn't much help and traditional "book" advice didn't work. I finally broke him of it when I was pregnant with my first child. When I got up to pee, he got up to pee - every night for about 5 months. Since I was getting up anyway, I just woke him up too. It worked great. By the time the baby was born, he no longer wet the bed. Since you're expecting - and will making those midnight trips to the bathroom - give it a shot! Good luck.
K.
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N.C. answers from Washington DC on December 18, 2007
I would speak to your son and find out if there is anything bothering him. Bedwetting can be a sign of emotional turmoil.
Second, change your doctor or at least get a second opinion. There could be medical as well as emotional reasons for this problem. Seek out a professional that is willing to help in a manner in which you are comfortable.
E.K. answers from Washington DC on December 17, 2007
I ended up calling a company named Pacific International,www.stopwetting.com ,when my then 8 year old was having that problem. The President of th company came out and let my son, my Ex and myself all know what was going to happen and how. It took less than 8 months to get him to be consistently dry all nighht. We did notice that he had more dry nights than wet ones in about a month. Check out the website and see if they can help.
J.T. answers from Norfolk on December 18, 2007
Has your son been checked to see if his bladder is perhaps immature? My nephew had the same problem and it was all due to an immature bladder. J. T
S.W. answers from Norfolk on December 18, 2007
the main question I have....have you taken him to a urologist?....CHANGE HIS DOCTOR, My 18 year old had the same problem...they have meds for it...10 year old is too old....he could have a problem and if his peditritian won't deal with it....GET A SECOND OPINION. Get a referrel to the urologist.
T.K. answers from Norfolk on December 19, 2007
Patience with your son, get a second opionion on his bed wetting..he may need to see a specialist.
Congratulations on your pending arrival!
T.
D.W. answers from Washington DC on December 27, 2007
I would get another dr's opinion. I had this problem as a child (yes, long ago). It was due to fact that I was a deep sleeper and I would dream that I did wake up and go to the bathroom. Wetting the bed woke me up most of the time, but I would swear I had gotten up to use the bathroom. My pediatrician gave me a tiny little pill to take every night. This was to keep me from sleeping deep so I would be able to wake up when I needed to pee. Soon after I was able to go to sleepovers with out being scared of what would happen.
Godd luck, I know what your son must being going through.
T.S. answers from Dover on December 18, 2007
There is a great book called The Thirsty Camel (I can't remember the author!) that addresses this very problem. As a counselor, I've recommended this book to parents several times, and they've always found it useful. Good luck!
K.H. answers from Norfolk on December 18, 2007
My stepson wet the bed every night until he was about 6 years old. The doctor wasn't much help and traditional "book" advice didn't work. I finally broke him of it when I was pregnant with my first child. When I got up to pee, he got up to pee - every night for about 5 months. Since I was getting up anyway, I just woke him up too. It worked great. By the time the baby was born, he no longer wet the bed. Since you're expecting - and will making those midnight trips to the bathroom - give it a shot! Good luck.
K.
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