D.B. asks from Leavenworth, KS on December 18, 2006
1 Yr Old Won't Drink Milk
My daughter is almost 14 months and doesn't care for milk. I breastfed her until she was a year old and for the last 2 months I have been offering her whole milk. She's tasted it several times and she just doesn't like it. I'm not really concerned about finding other sources of calcium and vitamin D, my main concern is the fat. I realize that healthy fat is essential to her brain development and I am unsure of what to replace the milk fat with. Will olive oil be a good alternative?? Any advice would really help!!
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B.S. answers from Columbia on December 30, 2006
Most people would probably disagree with this, but I put a tiny bit of chocolate milk mix in one time and my daughter drank it happily. I just added milk the rest of the day, and then she loved plain milk. The transition was just hard for her. This helped us, and I really needed to get her weaned because I was pregnant again.
C.E. answers from Kansas City on December 22, 2006
I don't like milk. Never drank it and I am 42. Also, I have never had a cavity or broken bone.
Don't worry about it. Give her other foods with calcium, etc.
L.R. answers from Columbia on December 20, 2006
My son won't drink plain milk, so I have to put strawberry or chocolate syrup in it. Ever since I started putting flavor he drinks every bit bit!
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B.B. answers from St. Louis on December 20, 2006
Avocado is an excellent source as are whole milk (and preferrably raw whole milk) cheeses made either from goat, cow or sheep milk. With a child that young you want to be cautious about too much fish because of the dangers of mercury, but fish is also a good source of essential fats known for brain boosting ability. There are also supplements such as coromega which offers essential fats from fish minus all the bad stuff associated with eating too much fish....the toxins are removed. Egg yolk is fatty and good too. Goat milk yogurt would also be a good thing to add. Olive oil is great too. AS a matter of fact our dr recommends only using olive oil or raw coconut oil. Hydrogenated coconut oil is what was tested and made the news years ago as a bad fat that raises cholesterol and then the media as well as many physicians twisted this to implicate coconut oil was bad. However the oil they were using for their studies then were hydrogenated and we all know how horribly toxic those are to the body. The tests were redone using pure coconut oil and proved that it is a very beneficial oil that offers many of the good medium chain fatty acids that are essential. Good luck and good job wanting to make sure she is getting what she needs!
B. :)
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J.R. answers from Lafayette on December 19, 2006
mine drinks it more warm than cold. She also likes those drinkable yogurts and smoothies, which I mix with alot of milk. If all else fails, the only way my father could get me to drink milk was chocolate milk....seems spoiling but i turned out ok haha
M.T. answers from Kansas City on December 20, 2006
Hi D.-
You can always offer a soy based milk product, that is whole fat to see if she prefers that better. Aand you can even try flavoring the regular milk with a little vanilla extract or some other flavor. And you can always ask her pediatrician for advice. It may be a taste that will develop, because it is so much different than breast milk. Good Luck!
M.H. answers from Tulsa on December 19, 2006
My daughter would not drink whole milk...BUT she loves 2% milk, go figure!
B.S. answers from Columbia on December 30, 2006
Most people would probably disagree with this, but I put a tiny bit of chocolate milk mix in one time and my daughter drank it happily. I just added milk the rest of the day, and then she loved plain milk. The transition was just hard for her. This helped us, and I really needed to get her weaned because I was pregnant again.
J.S. answers from Oklahoma City on December 20, 2006
I have a 13 month old that I breast feed. I had to put a little sugar in his milk. It may be bad to do so, Im not sure, but breast milk is sweet and I think thats why It worked
S.H. answers from Kansas City on December 19, 2006
Toddlers don't necessarily need milk, but they do need calcium and Vitamin D, which are readily available from milk and dairy products. Without any milk, it will be difficult to get enough calcium into her diet. There are alternatives to milk, though, and other ways to give your child calcium.
One alternative is to give your child fortified soy milk. However, keep in mind that soy milk is all low fat, and it isn't recommended that you limit a child's fat intake until he is 2-3 years old. Still, you could give soy milk and make up the extra fat with other foods in her diet.
Is there a big difference? Not really. Whole milk has 8g of fat per 8oz serving vs. 3.5 or 5g for soy milk. So, based on an average requirement of 16oz of milk per day, whole milk provides 16g of fat vs. 7-10g from soy milk. Giving the extra 6-9g of fat from other sources should ensure that your child is getting enough fat in his diet. (Based on a 1300 calorie diet and with 30% of calories coming from fat, your toddler probably needs about 40g of fat each day).
Another alternative is to give a toddler soy formula, which is milk free and has all of the fat and calcium that a growing toddler needs. Brands of toddler soy formulas include Isomil 2 and Next Step Soy.
How about goat's milk? Although goat's milk is discouraged for children under age 12 months because it lacks iron, folate and Vitamin B12, pasteurized and fortified goat's milk can be given to older children. If your child is allergic to or doesn't tolerate cow's milk, then she is likely to have similar problems with goat's milk, as they share many proteins and both have lactose.
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above info found at:
http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/weeklyquestion/a/020602_as...
H.P. answers from Oklahoma City on December 20, 2006
my daughter is about the same age. I bf till she was 1 and now she doesn't like milk. She loves to drink the vanilla soy milk though. she likes it best. My 4 yo will now drink milk. it may have to have some nesquick in it but she will drink it. hope this helps and good luck.
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